When Did That Happen?

 

  So, what happens when you look at your boyfriend, girlfriend, or
whatever the title may be, and realize everything that you were attracted to is
gone? For example, do you remember when you two first started out and you
were flooded with compliments like "You smell great"? I know you
remember that, but a better question is do you remember when the compliments
became sparse and critiques like "You could firm up a bit" started?
If you do then maybe you know exactly when you stopped being attracted to your
beau. As for the rest of us, when did that flare go disappear? Was it somewhere
between the cuddling and too much alone time? It sounds like the problem is the
both of you are not appreciating one another as much as you should be. You two
have become too familiar with one another. The excitement is gone, or so you
think. Try going out together and doing some of the things you two used to do.
Start by going out, after the big step try a spicy new club, the bar you met
at, or something that disappeared with the compliments. If these things aren't
doing the trick, try something you two never did before together. For instance,
sky diving is drastic, by hey it's exciting! If that is too much for you, maybe
you can try a sporting event, bumper cars, or even a trip. There are plenty
things to do, as long as you both want to do them. So, when you look at your
beau and realize the spark is gone, get up and get it back before it's too
late.