Friday, February 25, 2011
The 'S' Word
You knew this topic was coming: Soul mates. Personally I do believe in soul mates. I'm a little fuzzy on love at first sight, but soul mates exist. But here's my twist on the soul mate debacle. I believe that everyone has 1.5 soul mates. There's your one and your half. Your one is 'thee one'. You will be perfectly complacent with this person, but let's say your one and you never meet or it didn't work out and you two never tried again, then what? This is where your half comes in. You will be satisfied with this person, but it's not the same as being with your one. If you ever meet one you will know that there is an undeniable spark and chemistry that cannot be filtered for anyone. This 1.5 theory does not mean that you and one won't break up; it's still up to the both of you to make things work out to its maximum potential. This also isn't to say that your one won't die before you meet or is with their half. Life is crazy and it always will be. Don't expect an easy route because you found your one or half. Also, we are just humans which means there has been and will be error. For example, you think you found your one, but you find out you're in love alone. As horrible as that may sound, it has happened many times. So before you run out and give someone a title make sure it's real. No one can be your one (or half) when the chemistry and spark do not exist or only exist for you. So on that note, happy searching!
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This is a very interesting view that I have not personally heard before. It sounds liek a pretty solid idea; to have just one person you share many things in common with seems like a really crazy idea. I think it's possible to have a lot of halves, or else we probably wouldn't have dating.
ReplyDeleteVery solid and convincing theory, i really like it. Personally I've found that even when that title of the one or the half comes into existence based ob mutual love it does not necessarily last... Yeah happened and I'm one hundred percent sure, that wasn't the one or the half :)
ReplyDeleteI never thought of having a "half" soul mate before and its something that definitely makes perfect sense. There is no way you'll find someone that is your 100% perfect match but can come close to it. But there are probably people out there that could count as that other half and so I guess we'll all just have to search harder for that one.
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