Thursday, March 24, 2011
More Or Less...
So what happens when you are in this great relationship and only you feel that way? I'm sure we've all seen that girl or guy. They are sprung and you can't tell them nothin! They make their lives about their 'spouse', spend all of their time with them, and in some cases eliminate their friends. But I have another question. What happens when they break up three weeks later? Aside from earning a FAIL, they also are left to pick up the pieces. But it's never that simple. Who do they come crawling back to? You got it: the friends that they abandoned for the three week jerk or jerk[ette]. It sucks but it happens and honestly when it does, it's funny. There are always tells. I mean, we're in college. Not many relationships are going be this deep and passionate thing, as great as that would be, but we know what the situation is by now. A lot of people want someone but not a serious thing. Also for when your three week fling ends, who's going to take their place? I think monopolizing would be the right word Lol. When you really take into consideration the type of person your with, you know from the beginning what they want. If they say their in it for sex it's not a joke. You can't change people and why would you want to? If you have to change someone to be with them it's kind of a waste. So whenever you see that person making a mistake be a good friend and warn them that they may be in the midst of a one sided three week fling. Thanks :)
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Some people just get too clingy when they're in a relationship. And any good friend should be able to spot when a friend is acting that way and realize it will all blow over soon.
ReplyDeleteIf someone is 18 and wants a serious relationship, they're trying to grow up too fast. There is so much to life that one can miss if they are always tied down.
ReplyDeleteWe're into our first year of college, you're supposed to have fun and not have to worry about your boyfriend/girlfriend. And especially if you are one of those boyfriends/girlfriends that ditches your friends for them and you two break up, its hard for the friends to accept that person again after being constantly ditched for their boyfriend/girlfriend.
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