This as we know it is the first entry to my new blog Grey. You can refer to me as Ny [if the need arises]. Grey will consist of relationship topics. My goal is for you to learn from my mistakes and for us to conquer new ones together. So, what follows will be my first official blog. :]
Let's start a little farther back. The last relationship I was in started in May 2010 and ended in July 2010. It obviously went by pretty fast Lol. But in that relationship I realized a lot of things that should never happen. 1. No one and I mean NO ONE should ever put their hands on you to convey a point. 2. You should not have to lose yourself to find someone else. 3.Most importantly, if someone wants you, then they want you in your entirety; no lies included. In a beneficial relationship of any kind you don't put up with the things that I just listed and went through. When the relationship was all said and done, I didn't gain anything (positive) from it. Yeah sure, he gave me his favorite hoodie, but what good is a memento for something you want to forget?
After that relationship I've pretty much coasted. I had my flings, but at the end of the day they're not important. I know I want another relationship, but I'm a freshman in college, it can wait. Besides how many males are ready for the same thing? Not many I'm aware. So as the title states I'm starting over. I made my New Years resolution to get more out of my relationships or whatever's so that's exactly what I'm going to do. Right now no one is in the picture because I know what I want and I refuse to settle for less, personally. I'll update you when that changes. But until then I'll be here updating this blog weekly about things that occur about human relations Lol. Bye!
This is the start of a very cute blog. At the end, you said how you will update on things occurring in human relations. If you post these updates via people watching around campus, I highly recommend the commons or in front of life sciences. As I'm walking to class, I can't help but people watch so those two places can get populated and there can be many couples there to observe for you to post on human relations.
ReplyDeleteI can very well relate to your experience and especially to your resolution to not settle for less. A year ago I broke up with my girlfriend at the time because I had lost myself in that relationship. Now I am dating a girl that has also made similar mistakes and we now have what I would called the most dysfunctional yet healthy and mature relationship. And yes, we are one of those couples on the life science mall in between our classes... I'm looking forward to more of your insights and observations.
ReplyDeleteAww guys I'm blushing :] I will definitely be on the look out for people at the commons and life sciences now (watch out Felix). Thanks Samantha. As for you Felix, I think it's great that you got out of your old relationship. I know my next one is going to be a dysfunctional yet healthy and mature relationship and I can't wait. :]
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